Wednesday, April 28, 2010

When some people think differently...

Everyone has friends they admire with. Some of one's friends might be able to transform an ugly-stupid-immature person into a beautiful, brilliant and able-to-think-logically one. If they are so many friends that have given positive impacts in one's life, there must be someone who is outstanding than the rest and has the most significant in someone's life.

I love all my friends...seriously.... with all my heart. Friends have taught me a lot 'bout life that I'm facing at the moment. Though they tought me the 'knowledge' few years back, months ago, days before... but still, the 'knowledge' can be applied in every single inch of my life... Thanx a lot to those who always give me supports and comforting words whenever i need them... Thanx for always wishing me luck in whatever i do... thanks for encouraging me... complementing me... and congratulating words given... Supports from beloved people will encourage me to move on.. and on.. and on.... and now, what happen to me?

Some of my friends think differently or in other words, judge me from the cover... Some of them even interpret my words in other way around... They have never tried to let me explain... They have never told me directly when they are uncomfortable with my attitudes/my annoying words... What they did? They talked to other people and created stories 'bout me which might make me crying like a baby, if i listen the words uttered directly to my perfect ears--given by God. What happen to me?

If no one advise me not to do this and that, the same attitude will repeat itself... When nobody has intention to change me, i will be the identical person...which one described me as 'innocent' a long time ago... Thanx to those who have the courage to do so...i really appreciate the effort...

You...
You are a friend of mine... You know who i am... my background... my other friends who surround me. But, most of the time, you think of me negatively... You have never thought why do i give feedback/ response to you in that way... No need to feel mad..no need to feel sad and no need to feel infuriated... if my attitude do not match with the characteristics of your dream friends that you have listed. To be a friend of someone means our readiness to accept him/her as a human being, admit his/her strengths and weaknesses willingly...

You...
If you see strength in others, don't be jealous my dear friend... because there is also STRENGTH in you that you have never realized. If you see weaknesses in others...be in the front line to utter nice words which can melt the people and change them. You also have WEAKNESSES, just that they might differ from them... Hopefully, by doing so, they will do the same thing, and you improve.

You...
If you know a person very well... the names of one's siblings... one's family background and so on... the friends that one mingle with... one's life and love stories....what do we call that? things to ponder ;p

3 comments:

  1. Mena padah ash_mirza ya... so truuuueeee~~!!!! btw safa... pakenak ktk pon vid ya owh... eran mek...

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  2. :D
    wie..ttg video ya mek nang sik paham...jd mek biar jak malam tek, ney tauk nya akan lekuar video..huhu...

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